Re: Criticism

[MOELYONO <moel-ati@indo.net.id>]

Dear Tony.

	I agree with you that criticizing other people will not make them neither
work better nor happier. On the contrary they will not like us, hate us and
most of the time they are not willing to improve their part of the works
which were criticized. They become defensive and as a result we loose them
as friends. You may recall a book " the ugly Americans" written in the
'60's, saying that Americans tried to impose their standards upon other
people, particularly in South East Asia during the Veitnamese war which
fortunately had ended in 1975.

	Dr.Deming in his profound knowledge approach, advised us that we must
understand psychology of the people; which means we should understand the
feeling of other people regardles of their position in society.So let us
respect each other. We can disagree without being impolite.